Greg has been out of town since last wednesday. He is in New York taking review course for his oral boards. He will take the test for real this wednesday. We have been on our own for the last 5 days and I must admit we have been doing pretty good managing on our own.
Here in Germany there are many families with deployed spouses. It has the highest deployment rate out of any military community in the world. In our ward alone there are at any given time 20 deployed soldiers and airmen. That isn't counting lose who are on TDYs (I am not sure what the letters stand for but it means they are gone.) In one branch in our stake nearly all the men are gone, for a 15 month deployment. Needless to say, there is always someone who has it worse then you, no matter who you are. So, there isn't much room to feel sorry for yourself.
For me, this is a good thing. It seems as if I allow myself the luxury of feeling sorry for myself, I start a downward spiral of self pity, which leads to a decreased capacity and increased resentment. So, this week hasn't been bad. Plus, knowing that Greg might be deployed in the future, helps with the shorter times of separation. (I feel like this is a practice run.) Before Christmas his unit gave him a heads up that he would be deploying for 12 months starting in March. I started to gear myself for the long haul. With the change in administration, came a change of plans for Greg's unit and his didn't end up going. Compared to this possiblity a week seems like nothing.
However, there have been some bumps in the road in the past week. Micah and Sadie have been fighting like cats and dogs. Sadie is constanting bugging Micah. She really likes to wrestle and in always climbing on top of him and trying to get his attention by tackeling him. She serious likes to torture him. Micah can stand it for only so long and ends up smacking her to get some space. It is a cycle which starts with some giggling on Sadie's part, Micah asking her to "get off" and ends up with Sadie crying. We go through this cycle about 50 times a day.
Micah also got in a fight with a kid on the bus. Both kids came off the bus crying and Micah was screaming, and the bus driver complaining. We smoothed things over and Micah went willingly on the bus this morning without any problems. (He and this kid are ignoring each other still, though.)
Sadie has also has also started having temper tantrums. It seems like about 5 a day. After the kicking and screaming are over, she ends up crying and repeating over and over how much she misses daddy. So, it has been hard on the kids and we will be very excited to have things back to normal in 3 days.